In my 20s I tried to have a relationship with her, but my tolerance for her obsessive behaviour has lowered. I’d love to say that life is short, we need to forgive and forget and family is ultimately all we have. Having a baby doesn’t turn you into a perfect parent, or even a better-functioning human being. Then leave it to her to respond, and if it comes fraught with emotional tripwires step away and consider your duty done. There’s no debt due, but there’s much pleasure to be gleaned watching your child enjoy an independent relationship with their grandparent.

Source: The Guardian October 16, 2016 04:52 UTC